How FinanceBuzz Reunited This Man With His Family After 3 Long Years

After three years of not seeing his family, Maher returned home to Libya for a long and much needed visit.
Last updated Mar 26, 2020 | By Matt Miczulski
How FinanceBuzz Reunited This Man With His Family After 3 Long Years

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Back in December 2019, our contest known as FinanceBuzz Gives the Gift of Points awarded five people with free airfare to the destinations of their choosing. The contest was our way of sharing the life-changing hobby of award travel, and the holiday season seemed like the perfect time to do that.

As a part of the contest, participants had to submit a story explaining how a free round-trip plane ticket would allow them to turn a special dream into a reality. Whether it was a chance to reconnect with a friend, take a transformative trip, or make a surprise visit home, we wanted to hear how this trip could forever change their lives.

One of our winners was Maher E. from Oklahoma. Maher left for his Gift of Points trip home to Libya back in early February, and recently I had a chance to talk with him to see how his trip went. As one of the winners of FinanceBuzz Gives the Gift of Points, free airfare meant a chance for Maher to fly home to spend time with his family whom he hasn’t seen in almost three years.

How FinanceBuzz Reunited This Man With His Family After 3 Long Years

Why Maher chose this trip home

Maher comes from a close-knit, conservative family. He’s the youngest of six children, and an uncle to seven nieces and nephews. Maher told us that where he comes from, “family is of the utmost importance.” But, as important as family is to Maher, he doesn’t get to see them as often as he’d like.

Maher immigrated to the U.S. from Libya in 2009 to attend school. A couple years later, war broke out in Libya. Because of this and certain immigration restrictions that prevented Maher from leaving the U.S., traveling home to visit his family was not an option. With unreliable internet in Libya, simply talking to his family and seeing their faces was also challenging.

Eventually, Maher received his U.S. citizenship, allowing him to leave and enter the U.S. as he pleased, but due to the continued civil unrest in Libya, Maher’s chances to fly home were few and far between. Luckily, recent conditions have improved, and travel to Libya is once again possible, though still expensive.

How FinanceBuzz Reunited This Man With His Family After 3 Long Years

As one of the winners of FinanceBuzz Gives the Gift of Points, Maher was able to fly home to spend time with his family for the first time in years — and to visit them for the first time as a married man. This was especially important to Maher because his parents weren’t able to secure visas to attend his wedding in the U.S. and, therefore, weren’t able to take part in the many traditions when a son is married. 

Winning this trip home gave Maher and his family the chance to celebrate his marriage once and for all. With wedding photos and videos in hand, Maher was able to show his family all the moments of his big day.

Reuniting with family

Maher spent nearly a month visiting with his family in Libya, and it couldn’t have gone better. Previously, on the rare occasions when Maher had made it home, his brother, who lives and works in Malaysia, wasn't able to. When his brother could return home, Maher couldn’t make it. This time, however, Maher’s entire family was able to reunite for the first time in years.

How FinanceBuzz Reunited This Man With His Family After 3 Long Years

Not being able to return home as often as he’d like, Maher also hadn’t been able to celebrate any religious holidays with his family as he had growing up. As a Muslim, one of these celebrations is Eid al-Adha, also called the Festival of the Sacrifice. In commemoration of Ibrahim’s sacrifice to Allah, an animal is ritually sacrificed and divided into three parts. One share is given to the needy, another is kept at home, and the third is given to relatives.

Although this holiday took place in August 2019, a few months before Maher flew home, his family recreated the celebration in honor of Maher when he returned. With all of his family there — including siblings, nieces, nephews, and cousins — they got a sheep in Maher’s name, barbecued it, and celebrated their reunion.

“It was so much fun … it was a huge day,” Maher says.

The last word on Maher’s trip home

After not getting to see his family for three years, Maher’s Gift of Points award allowed him to spend a lengthy amount of quality time with his loved ones. His father also gave him a trove of paperwork showing Maher’s lineage in Libya. This included official documents and records of his family that dated back 400 years!

“The main thing was that I got to go home and share with my family that I got married,” Maher says “But it’s definitely more than that … This was really nice in that all of us were there at the same time, as a family.”

We’re honored to have been part of this experience for Maher.

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