Should Spouses Combine Auto Insurance?

Car insurance companies will generally cover your spouse too, and combining policies often comes with cost advantages.

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Updated Sept. 16, 2024
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If you’re newly married to someone who already has a policy, you might wonder whether you should combine auto insurance, and in a lot of cases, it makes sense to do so. You might receive a discount by combining policies, and it simplifies your household finances.

Other times, one of you might pay much higher rates than the other — perhaps due to being a lot older or having a spotty driving record — making it worth considering separate policies.

Your coverage options depend on the insurer and where you (and your spouse) live. Let’s look at the rules and times when spouses should combine car insurance.

Key takeaways

  • Combining policies can make sense to potentially get better rates and discounts, share vehicles more easily, and manage coverage.
  • Spouses and other household members are generally included on your car’s auto insurance policy when you sign up and list them.
  • Keeping separate policies can make sense if one of you has a specialty vehicle or high-risk factors or if you’re planning on separating.
  • You can exclude someone from your insurance policy in most states, but not all insurance companies allow this.
  • If your spouse doesn’t physically live with you, you may be able to drop them from your policy.

How does being married affect your car insurance?

Being married can impact your car insurance rates in ways that aren’t always straightforward at first.

  • Discounts: Combining car insurance with your spouse might unlock discounts that you wouldn’t qualify for on your own. For example, my husband had a steep legacy discount for having a longtime State Farm policy when we got married, and it lowered my rate too. Having two cars also allowed us to qualify for a multi-car discount.
  • Marital status: Insurers use several “rating factors” when calculating the price for your policy, and marital status is one of those. All else being equal, a married person will usually pay less for car insurance than a single person because insurers deem them as less likely to get into a car accident.
  • Other rating factors: Insurance companies also use several other metrics to calculate rates, including your credit score, age, gender, education level, typical driving patterns (i.e., how much, where, and when you drive), and – a biggie – driving history. If your spouse doesn’t rate favorably in those factors, it can impact the cost of your joint policy.

In addition, where you live — and where your spouse lives — plays a role in your car insurance as a married person.

Scenario 1: Your spouse lives with you

If your spouse lives with you — even if they’re gone temporarily due to being deployed or away at college — the insurer will likely put your spouse on your car insurance policy automatically when you sign up. Insurance companies generally require anyone living in the same house as you to be listed, including roommates, in-laws, stepchildren, etc.

If you have separate auto policies and you’re moving in together, that means that you’ll both be covered under a combined car insurance policy from two separate companies as long as the insurers are notified. The exceptions are if you cancel one of them or ask the insurance company to list your spouse as an “excluded driver” from your own policy.

Your policy won’t cover them if they’re excluded, so they can’t drive your car. If they do, the insurer will consider them uninsured, and if they get into an accident, you and your spouse will be on the hook to pay for everything. Your spouse may also face penalties and jail time, and your insurer may raise your own rates or drop the policy altogether.

Warning
If you try to skirt the rules and not disclose your spouse to your insurer, they may cancel your coverage or raise your rates if your spouse gets into an accident.

Not all insurance companies may honor your request, so be prepared to find a new policy if that’s the case. In addition, some states don’t allow you to exclude drivers from your policy — notably, Kansas, Michigan, New York, Virginia, and Wisconsin. This means that you may be forced to include your spouse on your policy if they live with you.

Scenario 2: Your spouse permanently lives away from you

We aren’t always able (or willing) to live at the same address as our spouse. If they don’t physically live with you, then you generally won’t need to disclose them to the insurer, and they won’t be listed on your policy.

You may still get a lower premium just because you’re married (as opposed to being single). However, your spouse’s rating factors — warts and roses and all — won’t impact your policy’s pricing.

However, your spouse can usually still drive your car as long as they have your permission, just like anyone else. But just to be sure, double-check your policy’s “permissive use” clause, which lays out who else it covers.

Some insurers will cover other drivers only if they’ll be driving your car fewer than about a dozen times per year, in which case, adding your spouse as an authorized user can be helpful. Other insurers might insist you add your spouse to your policy whether they live with you or not.

If your spouse was living with you previously and moved away (if you’re separated), then it’s worth calling your insurer about removing them from your policy. This ensures they’re no longer listed, but they can still drive your car if needed. If you exclude them, then they can’t drive your vehicle.

Why might you want to combine car insurance with your spouse?

As noted above, if you live with your spouse, your car insurance company will add them as a driver on your policy either when you sign up or otherwise notify them. The exception is if you go out of your way to exclude your spouse – and that’s if both your state and your insurer allow it. You’ll also be able to add your spouse’s vehicle to the policy.

That said, there are a few benefits to combining your car insurance policy with your spouse, including:

  • Simplicity: Managing one policy, including handling the premium payments and renewal, is easier than when you’re managing two.
  • Potentially better rates: If your spouse’s base rate is lower than yours, you might get to pay less as well. Checking around for quotes on a joint policy will help you see the potential impact.
  • Additional discounts: You’ll qualify for extra savings depending on what your insurer offers, such as multi-car discounts or policy bundle discounts.
  • Easier vehicle sharing: You and your spouse are covered while driving any car listed on your joint auto policy. Conversely, if your spouse is excluded from your policy, they can’t legally drive your car unless they seek their own coverage elsewhere.

When might you want to keep separate policies?

Going out of your way to specifically exclude your spouse from your own insurance policy (assuming it’s even an option) or buying separate policies may occasionally be worth it. Here are some examples:

  • You’re separating: Excluding your spouse from your car insurance means they’re not allowed to drive your car – and it’s one more step toward splitting up from your ex and starting anew. They might not qualify to be on your policy anyway if they've already moved out.
  • You have a specialty vehicle: If you have a vehicle that requires a special policy (such as a sports or classic car) and your spouse won’t be driving it, then it may be worth purchasing a separate policy for this car and excluding your spouse. This could help lower your car insurance bill.
  • Your spouse has high-cost rating factors: If your spouse has a recent history of multiple infractions like at-fault accidents or DUIs, it can be prohibitively expensive to keep them on your own policy. However, check the pricing since multi-car discounts might still make a combined policy the more economical choice.

Tip
It’s worth noting that nothing legally is stopping either of you from being covered under multiple auto policies at once. However, you can file a claim against only one company for a specific covered event like a car accident, and it could complicate the claims process.

If you exclude your spouse from the policy because they have a bad driving history, they can still get a policy on their own. But unless they exclude you as a driver, this means their policy will cover you too as long as you live with them. (Remember, insurance companies will list everyone in the same household on the policy.)

On the one hand, your good driving record may help them earn a lower rate, but on the other, it means you’re still paying for an extra policy when you already have coverage. It’s worth pricing out your options, but unless your insurer offers specific coverage options or features you prefer, purchasing a single combined policy may be wiser.

So, should spouses combine auto insurance?

For most people, it’s not really a question of whether you should combine auto insurance policies, since insurers will make you list your spouse on your policy if you live in the same house. So if you’re married and you live together, your spouse will be an included driver on your insurance by default.

It’s more a question of whether you should exclude your spouse from your own policy, such as if they have a checkered driving record or you have a specialty hobby vehicle. Remember, this means they won’t be able to drive your car at all unless they get their own policy somewhere else.

How to combine policies with your spouse

If you’re shopping for a new policy, you must disclose all driving-age adults who live in your home with you, and you’ll all be covered under the same policy. All insurers require this, and if you lie about who lives in your home, you can jeopardize your coverage.

If you and your spouse are in the process of combining households, then it’s still super simple. You’ll just contact your insurer and tell them that your spouse is moving in with you, and the insurer can add them to your policy. You can also add their vehicle at that time.

Other ways to save on your car insurance costs

Whether you combine policies or not, here are some other ways to save on insurance:

  • Shop around: Compare rate quotes from companies offering relevant discounts for your household, such as good student discounts or multi-car discounts.
  • Build your credit: In addition to helping lower your car insurance rate, a better credit score can help if you need to borrow money in the future to buy a new car or a house, get hired for certain jobs, get funds for emergencies, and so on.
  • Choose cars wisely: Get a rate quote before you buy a car, especially if you’ll be buying larger vehicles as your family size grows. Cars with more safety features may cost less. Our insurer quoted us only $37 more for Ingrid, our brand-new Volkswagen ID.4, compared to Greta, our decades-old beat-up Ford pickup. That was probably because Ingrid has so many more safety features than Greta.
  • Choose coverage types wisely: Switching from a full coverage to a minimum coverage policy can save you big bucks if you’re not as worried about replacing your vehicle in an accident. That’s what we ended up doing with Greta, our older truck, and it saved us nearly $300 per year.

Our car insurance recommendations for married couples

If you’re shopping around for a new combined policy with your spouse, consider these three recommendations:

  • Farmers Insurance: This insurer offers several discounts that are helpful for families, such as households with teens who share a car or previously covered drivers under age 29 who are moving out on their own. There’s also a potential 10% discount for policy bundling.
  • Liberty Mutual: If you or your spouse has children, it’s worth considering Liberty Mutual since it offers a special discount when you add a new teen driver to your policy, in addition to several other discounts for young people. There are also discounts for multiple cars or policies.
  • State Farm: It’s the country’s largest auto insurer by market share, and it consistently gets high customer satisfaction ratings by J.D. Power. It also has a long list of discounts.

FAQ

Can my spouse drive my car if they’re not on my insurance?

If they’re not listed as an excluded driver on your policy, then your spouse will typically fall under your insurer’s permissive use policy and still be able to drive your car. This can be true even if they live separately from you.

Can I later remove my spouse from our combined policy?

If your state and insurer allow it, you can name your spouse as an excluded driver if you don’t want them covered as a driver anymore under your policy. If they move out or get their own coverage, you might also consider dropping them. However, insurers usually require your spouse’s consent for combined policy changes, and you need to be careful to avoid coverage gaps.

Do I have to list my spouse on my policy if they’re not driving?

Generally, if your spouse lives with you, then you must include them on your policy, even if they’re not driving. You may be able to exclude them, however, if your insurer and state law allow it.

How will combining policies affect my rates?

Your rates may go up or down depending on your spouse’s various rating factors, such as their age, gender, driving history, and more. You might also get a multi-car discount when you add their vehicle.

Bottom line

Since your spouse will likely need to be on your car insurance policy anyway unless you want to deny them coverage entirely, it’s worth taking some time to shop around for rates before you make a decision one way or another. Just because your current policy jacks up your car insurance rate doesn’t mean another company will do the same.

Most experts recommend getting rate quotes from at least three of the best car insurance companies when your policy is up for renewal. However, there’s really no limit on the number of insurers you can shop around with to find the lowest price.

Also, carefully weigh the pros and cons of combining car insurance, especially in cases where your spouse is a high-risk driver, you’re separating, or you have a specialty car.

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