13 Secrets Your Doctor Really Wants You to Know

Having a good relationship with your doctor is worth it. It allows you to feel comfortable opening up to them, sharing your biggest worries, and getting advice on how to live a healthier life.

Sometimes, doctors want you to know that what you believe about your health care could be very wrong. Other times, they don’t want you to believe they know everything.

Here are secrets your doctor wants you to know that they may not outright tell you, some of which can lower your financial stress and health concerns.

Doctors recognize that the internet is a vast tool to support wellness and health, but it’s one of the biggest pain points for them as well.

When you search online, self-diagnose your health, and think you have every aliment possible, that’s worrisome to your doctor. It damages their relationship with you because you may not trust what they say.

Instead, wait until your doctor offers a diagnosis and treatment plan. Ask questions and be sure to feel comfortable with your care, but don’t assume Google knows better.

Your doctor wants exceptional care based on what’s ailing you. However, they typically don’t know what your health insurance plan does. You can stop wasting money away but ask for yourself.

Your doctor also doesn’t know which providers are covered by your insurance. So if they refer you to a specialist, don’t assume that person is in your network. It’s your responsibility to find out if they are.

Contrary to what many believe, your doctor isn’t prescribing medication because they get some kickbacks from drug companies. They’d actually prefer you to save money.

That includes using the GoodRx app to find the best pricing on prescriptions you need. If your medications are within your budget, you’re more likely to take them, improving your odds of the best outcome.

If you anticipate needing medications, be sure you’ve taken the time to find a pharmacy you want to work with ahead of your doctor’s visit.

It’s worth it to price shop and compare pharmacies ahead of your doctor’s appointment simply because it makes it possible for your doctor to know where to send prescriptions.

If you change to a new pharmacy, you’re creating more work for the staff, which means less time spent caring for patients.

Be 100% truthful and thorough with your doctor during your visit. Everything you tell them can be beneficial to you because it allows them to see the bigger picture of what’s happening.

Your doctor has seen it all and most likely isn’t going to be shocked by anything you share. Even minor details can play a role in better understanding your health, while key omissions can lead to the wrong diagnosis.

Did you see a new medication advertised on TV? Perhaps a celebrity you’ve always admired is pushing a new supplement, “essential” test, or another product.

Trust your doctor to help you determine the best care for your needs and not the celebrity who’s receiving compensation for their endorsement. And just because a celebrity took a specific test doesn’t mean you need it too.

Calling the doctor’s office slows everyone down, but you can and should use the online portal for communication with your doctor.

It’s designed to provide a simple and effective way for you to share important information with your doctor, but more efficiently.

Just remember that the online portal isn’t a substitute for an appointment. If you’re discussing new information, updates to your health, or have new symptoms, schedule an in-person visit with your doctor.

Your doctor may notice signs of illness or symptoms of concern before you mention them.

Yellowing of the eyes and skin could indicate liver disease. If your voice is raspy, it probably means you’re smoking. If your breath is bad, that could mean uncontrolled diabetes.

Sometimes patients will have poor posture, which could indicate mental health concerns. Expect them to ask questions and be open with your answers.

Often, people believe that they’re physically active because they have a lot of things to do in a given day, but that often includes time sitting in the car, watching TV, or browsing their phone.

Are you really physically active enough to get your heart rate going? If not, let your doctor know that.

Ask questions about your treatment plan including what the plan includes, any side effects, and what to expect long term.

Your doctor wants you to be fully cognizant of what’s happening in your life rather than relying on them to make the best decision for you.

Life-changing illnesses or treatment plans are worth vetting with a second or even third opinion, but where that opinion comes from really matters. Don’t be afraid to ask your doctor for more insight and additional opinions.

When you do request them, however, make sure you’re turning to a qualified professional who can provide you with science-based insight. Your friend’s or mother’s opinion shouldn’t overrule your doctor’s.

Part of making your health a priority means understanding what medications you’re taking and why. Do you know what each pill in your medicine cabinet is for, or do you just take what you’re told?

Having a good understanding of your medications, how they work, and why you’re taking them helps you play a bigger role in your overall well-being.

Bleeding, breathing problems, sudden changes in consciousness, and even a change in your mental state are emergencies that benefit from a trip to the emergency room.

However, other things, like having a fever or feeling off, don’t warrant an ER visit. You also don’t need to call your doctor’s overnight line for non-serious situations.

By all means, get care, but know which level of care is best for the situation. You can also keep more cash in your wallet if you avoid the ER when it's not an emergency. 

Doctors certainly want to communicate openly with their patients. One of the most important things they want their patients to know is that they’re responsible for their own health.

Your doctor is there to help you through the tough times. If you don’t take an active role in fixing bad habits or taking your meds on time, they can’t fully help you.

If you're honest, and follow the tips provided, you might find yourself living a healthier life and ready to get ahead financially.